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Here are the 5 changes I made in my life that took me from being the perpetual loser to a “Can Do” person:
Change #1: I decided to spend quality time with God every day. If it meant sleeping less and getting up earlier, I was willing to do that sacrifice. I knew that having fellowship with the kindest Being in the Universe would affect my life powerfully.
Change #2: I studied His Word and took advantage of every opportunity I had to listen to anointed teachings from Him. I’d download free Bible teachings and listen to them while I cooked, drove in my car, exercised, worked in the garden, etc.
Change #3: I took the quality decision that these new learned truths would govern my life from now on. As I listened to God’s Word, my way of thinking started to change. I started to view myself the way God sees me, as a precious creation of His that had the God given ability to succeed in life. I discovered that He had an exciting, glorious and good plan for my life.
Change #4: I learned the language of silence. Even though my mind was being renewed by receiving high quality spiritual food, my mouth often still spoke things that were contrary to God’s Word. The Bible says that life and death lie in the power of the tongue (Proverbs 18:21). I determined to only speak God’s Word over my life and my circumstances, no matter what they looked like or how I felt.
Change #5: I chose to walk in love. Coming from a dysfunctional family, I had serious wounds of my past and harbored resentment against the people who had hurt me. I decided to forgive and not to take any more offenses, because I knew they would shut me off from God and His blessings. Besides, after spending so much time with Him, He taught me to love the way He loves: unconditionally.
Please note that these changes did not occur overnight. It was only through the grace,–the supernatural empowerment of God–that I could stick through this process without giving up. He was always there, patient and merciful.
He restored my life to a place where people are impressed by my boldness and confidence. What a miracle!
Our tongue is one of the most evil devices ever created.
With it we can cause tremendous damage, not only to others, but to ourselves too.
You might ask, “Is what I say really such a great deal?
Yes, it makes a world of difference.
The Bible even states that life and death are in the power of the tongue. (Proverbs 18:21)
You see, we have to understand how this works. Day in and day out we are bombarded with bad news from the world around us. Even though we are not aware of it, this produces negative thinking in our minds.
These thoughts come to our mind automatically, we cannot help thinking them.
But we can choose to receive them or not. At this point we can still analyze the information and decide if we accept it or not.
Now, you cannot drive bad thoughts out of your brain by forcing yourself to think good thoughts. It won’t work.
And this is where the tongue comes in.
The only way you can either drive out bad thoughts or accept them is by using your tongue.
A person who is facing a challenging situation could start vocalizing his fears. In this case, he or she will be talking death. The battle is already lost even before it started, because the tongue has programmed this person for failure. He or she has chosen to accept those thoughts and gave birth to them the moment he or she confessed them with their tongue.
The good news is that, just as the tongue is powerful to kill and destroy, it is also powerful to edify and succeed. As a matter of fact, that is what it was designed for in the first place!
God, our Creator, gave us this powerful tool to set our faith in motion. Faith is believing without seeing. So, if you encounter a challenging situation in life, you talk God´s promises over that thing instead of confessing your fears and negative thoughts.
By doing this, you will have set this most powerful mechanism in motion and the outcome of your endeavors will be of victory, not defeat.
Oh, and remember…
“Keep your tongue from evil, and your lips from speaking deceit.”(Psalms 34:13)
G.F.I.
Go For It!
Have a great week!
Bettina
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A few days a go I saw a picture of the biggest diamond that mankind has ever discovered.
I have to admit that, to my uneducated eye, it appeared to be a regular piece of glass.
That is how we often view our own talents and skills. To God they are like precious stones, because He knows their true potential, but they don’t seem very special in our own eyes.
Many times we look at what is in our hands and it doesn’t seem like much to us. Sure, we have this strength, but so do many others and they seem to excel in them much more than we do.
Be careful when these kind of thoughts cross your mind! Motivate yourself. You might be throwing away a piece of glass that in reality is a diamond in the rough.
If you think your talents are no big deal, you might be struggling in one of these areas:
Don’t Despise Small Beginnings
Anybody who ever excelled in anything had to start from scratch. In some point of their lives they determined to take that diamond in the rough and work and train and drill themselves until all its beauty could unfold.
We have to keep in mind that, when we admire the accomplishment of somebody, we are seeing the fruit of a long—and often painful–process of development. This time of preparation is most often lived in silence. A silence in which many a tear was shed and many a drop of sweat was brushed from the brow.
During this time of silence these people were nobodies. They were on their own, pushing and pressing while no one else but God believed in them.Not many successful people talk about the difficulties they encountered on their way to success, because, in the light of victory, the dark moments of the battle are quickly forgotten.
Perfectionism
Are you a so called overachiever? Do you pride yourself in setting high standards? Then you might have fallen into the trap of perfectionism.
Perfectionism is the enemy of everything that could have been good. It limits our capabilities, because, whatever we do, it will never be good enough. If perfectionists can’t attain a certain level, they just don’t do it because they have high standards and can’t settle for less. It’s a recipe for failure.
The root of the problem with perfectionists is that it is all about them. God has an amazing plan for them, but it’s not for their glory. It’s for His.
Hold Your Gifts Up to God
Jesus fed 5,000 people with two fish and a loaf of bread. Before doing that He held them up to God and God performed a miracle. Likewise, you can also hold your meager, unpolished talents and skills up to God in faith. He will empower them and multiply them beyond anything you could ever imagine.
Oh, and remember…
“For the gifts and callings of God are irrevocable” (Romans 11:29)
G.F.I.
Go For It!
Bettina
PD Learn how to discover and develop your unique talents and skills here.
It seems that, no matter what we plan or think or do, life is pretty unpredictable.
The world around us is changing and changing fast. The media is bombarding us with news about economic and social instability and often even our own little square foot of world we live in doesn’t seem secure anymore.
Nevertheless, in the midst of all this confusion, there is one thing that has not changed:
God cares for you. He wants to bless you. He wants to increase you. And He wants to use you.
Nobody has been put on this planet to be average. There is so much potential in every human being.
You are here for a reason and it is to glorify Him in all you do, whatever that is.
Even though the circumstances around you are overwhelming, today I want to tell you that there is a way to live in peace in the midst of all the turmoil and mess this world may be in. It is in the middle of His will for your life.
I strongly believe that every human being has been divinely endued with a unique combination of gifts and talents that can be successfully developed by unleashing the power of a self-directed learning process.
But, like in any other project, you’ll need a blueprint, a foundational plan to take your raw individual gifting to a level of fulfillment and success.
Most of us are clueless about how to get where we want to go.
Here is help:
1.- Don’t try to figure out everything on your own, ask God, He knows better.
2.- Rest in the assurance that He is still on His throne, and He is NOT wringing His hands, wondering about what could be done. He has already provided a means for you to live a victorious life. All you have to do is find out about it.
3.- Now you are ready to go! Embrace life with joy and be expectant about what He is going to do today in your life. Let Him surprise you!
Oh, and remember…
“Can a woman forget her nursing child, and not have compassion on the son of her womb? Surely they may forget, yet I will not forget you. See, I have you inscribed on the palms of My hands.” (Isaiah 49:15,16)
G.F.I.
Go For It! You are precious to God and He is right there, yearning to be a part of your life.
Bettina
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It has happened to all of us. We have a great idea or we get inspired to do something that requires boldness and faith to achieve. Excitement is on an all time high and our spirit is churned up to go forward and conquer.
And then we start reasoning. Our mind starts bombarding us with questions.
Can we possibly do that? What if this goes wrong? What will so and so say?
Suddenly our great idea isn’t that attractive anymore. The glorious path to achievement has filled with unexpected road blocks and our whole plan seems doomed for failure.
What happened? Were you wrong when you believed you could succeed in the first place?
No, it is only your mediocre mind that is blocking your spirit.
All of us are inherently creative and have unique God-given talents and gifts to accomplish great tasks. God has deposited a genius in every human being.
The problem is that our spirit is aware of that, but our mind is not. Every genius will sooner or later encounter a mind that has been educated to doubt and to fear.
If you would ask a classroom of 5 year olds how many of them believe they are artists, probably all of them would raise their hands enthusiastically. A few years later most of them will not.
Once again, the mediocre mind got in the way.
That is why the Bible adamantly encourages us to renew our minds constantly. We should see ourselves as God sees us, as creative beings made in His image. It is only then that our spirit will be free to reach above and beyond the limits our human reasoning is always trying to make us aware of.
Oh, and remember…
“Be renewed in the spirit of your mind and that you put on the new man which was created according to God…”(Ephesians 4:23,24)
G.F.I.
Go For It!
Bettina
who wants to help you see yourself the way God sees you!
PD I have dedicated a whole Chapter to the subject of renewing your mind in my new ebook “Know Your Destiny - How to Find Out God’s Plan and Purpose for Your Life.” You can check it out here.
How are those changes coming along? According to God’s Word, the path of the just is like the shining sun, that shines ever brighter unto the perfect day.(Proverbs 4:18)
That means your life should be increasing constantly from one day to the next.
If you are struggling in this area, you are probably facing fears you’ll have to deal with.
In every change we want to make in our lives or every new step we want to take, we’ll encounter man’s greatest enemy: fear. Fear of the unknown, the complex, the inexplicable.
Fear has a way of paralyzing our actions. It has us cowering in a corner and forces us to settle for a level of life that is way below what God has intended for us.
If fear is the greatest obstacle to our growth, then why do we fear so much? Why can’t we just ignore the message of fear and focus on what God has put in our heart?
You can. But it will require some action.
Fear operates just as faith does. As a matter of fact, fear is a twisted kind of faith. It is also a form of belief. It believes more in the devil’s ability to harm us than in God’s ability to help us overcome the odds.
And just as faith is made strong by reading and hearing the Word of God, fear develops by allowing negative messages to access our minds.
We are bombarded with bad newsdaily. If it’s not the media it will be the colleague at work or our next door neighbor.
If we are not careful, we will very soon accumulate enough information that will justify all our fears.
This does not mean we should ignore bad circumstances, but we should never allow them to determine our outlook on life. There is a higher Truth.
While the whole world is going havoc, there is still an Absolute that stands as a huge rock in the middle of a raging sea: God’s Word and His promise of having empowered the human race to become more than conquerors through Jesus Christ.
Anyone who chooses to build his or her life on this rock will overcome insurmountable obstacles. He will be able to boldly confront life’s challenges and walk out in faith to achieve the seemingly impossible.
Oh, and remember…
“Do not fear, little flock, for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom.” (Luke 12:32)
G.F.I.
Go For It!
Bettina
who wants to inspire you to step out of that secure boat so you can walk on water!
PD If you are struggling with doubt and fear in your life, you can find more help here.
Most people, with very few exceptions, think lowly of themselves. They have a hard time accepting that they are really capable of far more than they are achieving or have achieved in life.
This lack of vision and boldness is not to be confused with humbleness, a noble trait that is mentioned a lot in the Bible.
It is interestingthough, that we will not find the word “self esteem” in the Bible. It’s because self-esteem is all about “self” and the Bible is all about God.
When we can’t imagine ourselves fulfilling great tasks, we are really just focusing on the perception others have of us. It is when we desperately search for ways of promoting ourselves that we will miserably fail at finding our true worth.
That is what we call low self esteem.
By trying to find acknowledgement from others we can easily get trapped in the downward spiral of self exaltation, which ultimately will lead to the fall
True humbleness, on the other hand, is based on obedience to God and fully depends on Him, His empowerment and His provision.
David was humble when he killed Goliath, although his heroic act could have been interpreted as extremely arrogant. Nevertheless, His purpose was not to exalt himself, but to obey God and to glorify Him instead.
In the same way, it is when we take our eyes off our self and focus on God and on what we can do for Him on this planet, that our true potential will flourish and lead us to accomplish those great exploits we all know, deep inside, we are perfectly capable of.
Here are the 5 changes I made in my life that took me from being the perpetual loser to a “Can Do” person:
