Anxiety and Hurt: 3 Vital Keys to Steps to Building a Happier You that is not so Needy
Ξ October 23rd, 2008 | → | ∇ Educate for Freedom, Self-Improvement:Inspirational |
Human needs hurt and hurt demands attention. People who are conscious of their hurting needs are prone to meditate about them throughout their day. Ultimately all their life starts to evolve around their unmet needs and they have fallen into the trap of self-centeredness without realizing it.
When you give too much attention to your unmet needs, you automatically magnify them. After a while they’ll seem so huge to you that it will seem impossible for you to ever have that requirement in your life satisfied.
Furthermore, a needy person will erroneously start looking toward others to satisfy their necessities. Under these circumstances disappointments are inevitable, and the downward spiral begins.
First of all, don’t depend on any other person to meet your needs, because there is nobody out there who will never disappoint you. Human beings are fallible, you know. All of them.
Second, turn your frustrated life over to the one who lovingly designed it. You might not be aware of it, but that state of mind you are in is not what God wants for you. And He is the only one who can fully meet those needs of yours. He wants you to live a happy and fulfilled life. He has a perfect plan for your life that is so exciting, that it exceeds everything you could ever imagine for yourself.
Third, Jesus died so that you could become free of anything that is holding you back. And that victim mentality sure is. Right now you can make Him the Lord of your life and He will show you how to change your deprived and pitiful life into a power house of love that is able to replenish your needs and those of others.